What dua should I make for a good spouse in Islam?

The most recommended dua for a good spouse is from the Quran: 'Rabbana hab lana min azwajina wa dhurriyyatina qurrata a'yunin waj'alna lil-muttaqina imama' (Al-Furqan 25:74) — 'Our Lord, grant us from among our spouses and offspring comfort to our eyes and make us a leader for the righteous.' Make this dua consistently after Fajr and in the last third of the night.

Is Istikhara dua compulsory before marriage?

Istikhara is a strong Sunnah before any major decision, including marriage. The Prophet ﷺ taught it to his Companions 'as he taught them surahs from the Quran' (Bukhari) — emphasising its importance. Pray 2 nafl rak'ahs, recite the Istikhara dua, then proceed with trust in Allah while using your best judgment. See the full Istikhara guide on Muslim Friend.

What dua can I make for my marriage to be blessed?

On the wedding night (or when first meeting a spouse), the Sunnah is to place your hand on your spouse's forehead and say: 'Allahumma inni as'aluka min khayriha wa khayr ma jubilat 'alayh, wa a'udhu bika min sharriha wa sharr ma jubilat 'alayh' (Abu Dawud). Also the dua before intercourse protects any children conceived from Shaytan (Bukhari, Muslim).

How do I perform Salat al-Istikhara for marriage?

Pray 2 voluntary rak'ahs (not the obligatory prayer), then recite the Istikhara dua in Arabic or your own language, mentioning the specific matter (marriage to this person). Then go to sleep. Istikhara does not necessarily produce a dream — the guidance comes through ease or difficulty in the decision. Repeat for several nights if needed. See the full guide at istikhara-dua.html.

Dua for Marriage — Islamic Prayer in Arabic & English

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Quran 25:74

رَبَّنَا هَبْ لَنَا مِنْ أَزْوَاجِنَا وَذُرِّيَّاتِنَا قُرَّةَ أَعْيُنٍ وَاجْعَلْنَا لِلْمُتَّقِينَ إِمَامًا

Rabbana hab lana min azwajina wa dhurriyyatina qurrata a'yunin waj'alna lil-muttaqina imama

Our Lord, grant us from among our wives and offspring comfort to our eyes and make us an example for the righteous.

When to recite: When seeking a righteous spouse or praying for a blessed family life. Recite in every sujud and after prayers.

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Quran 28:24

رَبِّ إِنِّي لِمَا أَنْزَلْتَ إِلَيَّ مِنْ خَيْرٍ فَقِيرٌ

Rabbi inni lima anzalta ilayya min khayrin faqeer

My Lord, indeed I am, for whatever good You would send down to me, in need.

When to recite: The dua of Prophet Musa ﷺ — he recited this and Allah blessed him with a spouse shortly after. Perfect for those seeking marriage.

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Abu Dawud & Tirmidhi

بَارَكَ اللَّهُ لَكَ، وَبَارَكَ عَلَيْكَ، وَجَمَعَ بَيْنَكُمَا فِي خَيْرٍ

Barakallahu laka, wa baraka 'alayka, wa jama'a baynakuma fi khayr

May Allah bless you, and shower His blessings upon you, and join you together in goodness.

When to recite: The Sunnah dua for congratulating a newlywed couple. Say this to anyone who just got married.

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Quran 3:38

رَبِّ هَبْ لِي مِنْ لَدُنْكَ ذُرِّيَّةً طَيِّبَةً ۖ إِنَّكَ سَمِيعُ الدُّعَاءِ

Rabbi hab li min ladunka dhurriyyatan tayyibah innaka sami'ud-du'a

My Lord, grant me from Yourself a good offspring. Indeed, You are the Hearer of supplication.

When to recite: The dua of Prophet Zakariya ﷺ for righteous children. Recite when hoping for a blessed family.

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Quran 30:21

وَمِنْ آيَاتِهِ أَنْ خَلَقَ لَكُمْ مِنْ أَنْفُسِكُمْ أَزْوَاجًا لِتَسْكُنُوا إِلَيْهَا وَجَعَلَ بَيْنَكُمْ مَوَدَّةً وَرَحْمَةً

Wa min ayatihi an khalaqa lakum min anfusikum azwajan litaskunu ilayha wa ja'ala baynakum mawaddatan wa rahma

And of His signs is that He created for you from yourselves mates that you may find tranquility in them; and He placed between you affection and mercy.

When to recite: A beautiful verse to reflect on during nikah (wedding ceremony) or when praying for love and mercy in marriage.

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Muslim

اللَّهُمَّ إِنِّي أَسْأَلُكَ خَيْرَهَا وَخَيْرَ مَا جَبَلْتَهَا عَلَيْهِ، وَأَعُوذُ بِكَ مِنْ شَرِّهَا وَشَرِّ مَا جَبَلْتَهَا عَلَيْهِ

Allahumma inni as'aluka khayraha wa khayra ma jabaltaha 'alayh, wa a'udhu bika min sharriha wa sharri ma jabaltaha 'alayh

O Allah, I ask You for the good in her and the good You have made in her nature, and I seek refuge in You from the evil in her and the evil You have made in her nature.

When to recite: Dua for a new bride/groom on the wedding night. The Prophet ﷺ taught this for when meeting your spouse.

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Istikhara — Bukhari

اللَّهُمَّ إِنِّي أَسْتَخِيرُكَ بِعِلْمِكَ وَأَسْتَقْدِرُكَ بِقُدْرَتِكَ وَأَسْأَلُكَ مِنْ فَضْلِكَ الْعَظِيمِ

Allahumma inni astakhiruka bi 'ilmika wa astaqdiruka bi qudratika wa as'aluka min fadlikal-'azeem

O Allah, I seek Your guidance by virtue of Your knowledge, and I seek ability by virtue of Your power, and I ask You of Your great bounty.

When to recite: Salat al-Istikhara — pray 2 rakaat and recite the full dua when making a marriage decision or considering a proposal.

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